Sunday, December 19, 2004

Friends

There are basically put, 2 types of friends in this world. The "true" and the "untrue"; the former, needless to say, is hard to come by while the latter can be found anywhere, anytime. The problem here is with the differentiating of these 2 very different types. Similar by the word "friend", these 2 types vary drastically in feeling and the way they present themselves to us. I am sure deep down inside, everyone will have their own unique way of differentiating true friends from untrue ones; although the methods and ways used to portray such feelings by each individual are vastly different.

I am happy to say that I have several of these hard to come by friends who have walked into my life in different stages during the past 21 years; I am grateful for the friendships forged and the feelings shared; I will try my best to hold onto these reins of friendship and I hope they will do the same too. (You know who you are.) As said by my father, true friendships are extremely hard to come by, know and treasure those that have already made a presence in your life and let not the feelings of regret grip you by the ends when you near the twilight years. I will remember that... and I am sure you will remember it too... my dear friends.

3 Comments:

At 9:26 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

what's making you so sentimental over 'friendship' all of a sudden?

Come donate blood instead!

Paul

 
At 9:43 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh well, I can see that you are having some blood frenzy now, heeheee...

Kenneth

 
At 11:04 PM, Blogger Jeffire said...

Friends...

Good friends may not necessary share common characteristics. The only key common characteristic they have is a willingness to share time together.

I think a good friend is one who really tells you about his life, and urge you to tell him about yours, so that you can learn from each other's experiences. Sincerity is the key here..

I dunno what happened between the brothers, but they is a deep misunderstanding we need to clear up soon. it's everyone's fault and misconception of each other. u c, ppl change over time and we may not be the same person since we got to know each other. yet we muz learn to accept each others' changes and help everyone to change for the better.

i sincerely hope we will be able to spend some quality time together before the term begins and probably short bouts during the term.. prob once a mth is good enuf.

i am confident we will clear this up very soon.

regards
jeffire

 

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