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Of Trust and Human Relations...

Trust is a very important factor in human relationships. If you do not trust your parents, your friends, your spouse, what else is there to maintain or be happy about in a relationship? But attaining and getting trust from another is more easily said than done. The trust and bonds built between parents and child has been in place since the day the child was born into this world. The trust that his/her parents would take care of him/her, do things that are of the best interest for them, give them the assurance to become what they want to be, cannot be attributed to one factor alone but many others that contribute to their ultimate trust.

Like friends, we trust each other to not sell one another out, not to spurt out secrets told to them, not to do things that might be detrimental to the other. The trust has to start out somehow, however small in the beginning and slowly gaining strength as the friendship goes on; each knowing each others' personality better. The important thing here is that trust has to be in the friendship to allow for it to go on and blossom. Best friends are not best friends because they just occur, but because of the amount of trust that has grown and intertwined into the relationship.

Without trust, any type of relationships will be halted from developing further. Though hard to give, the first step is always important. I'm not saying that anyone should place their complete trust on another, but to slowly add on and afford more trust as the relationship goes along, not suspect and remove your trust upon unfounded things.

Sometimes people try and failed, but many others succeed. Is trusting a person really so hard?

posted by Kenneth @ 5/24/2007 12:05:00 PM